7 Things You Should Never Accept From a Stranger While Traveling But some Tourists Do

Marcel Kuhn

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The Free Bracelet That Costs More Than Dinner

The Free Bracelet That Costs More Than Dinner (image credits: unsplash)
The Free Bracelet That Costs More Than Dinner (image credits: unsplash)

Picture this: You’re walking through the cobblestone streets near the Sacré-Coeur in Paris, camera in hand, when a smiling stranger approaches with colorful bracelets draped over his arms. “Free gift, my friend!” he says, extending his hand for what seems like a friendly greeting. Before you know it, there’s a braided string tied tightly around your wrist, and suddenly this “friend” wants 20 euros for his “generous” gift. The scam follows a predictable pattern: operators approach tourists with friendly banter, asking where they’re from and making personal connections. They then offer “free” friendship bracelets, sometimes literally throwing them at tourists who feel compelled to catch them. Once the bracelet is in hand, the scammer pressures the tourist for a “donation.” The design and materials of these bracelets, coupled with the way they are tied, make it difficult to quickly remove the “gift” from your wrist without damaging it. This gives the scammers time to try to persuade you to donate something by sharing heart-wrenching stories and photos of children and attempting to evoke a sense of pity. What makes this particularly unsettling is how they prey on our natural human politeness – most of us don’t want to seem rude by refusing what appears to be a genuine gesture of friendship. Never accept any gifts from strangers – there is almost always a catch. If they manage to get that bracelet on your arm or small gift in your hand and refuse to take it back, drop it on the ground.

The Drink That Makes You Forget Everything

The Drink That Makes You Forget Everything (image credits: pixabay)
The Drink That Makes You Forget Everything (image credits: pixabay)

Nothing says vacation like meeting locals and sharing a drink, right? But when that charming stranger at the beach bar insists on buying you that colorful cocktail, alarm bells should be ringing louder than a fire truck. This scam is particularly dangerous because it can have serious consequences beyond just losing money. A friendly stranger—often in a bar, restaurant, or bustling market—approaches and offers you a drink, a snack, or even a free sample of something local. If you accept, you may later be hit with an outrageous bill for something you thought was free. In bars, the “friendly” stranger may disappear, leaving you responsible for their expensive tab. In more sinister cases, the drink may be spiked, leading to theft or worse. I’ve heard horror stories from travelers who woke up hours later with empty wallets, missing phones, and fuzzy memories of how they got back to their hotel. The scary part isn’t just losing your stuff – it’s losing control of your own safety in a foreign place where you don’t know the language or the local emergency numbers. Never accept unsolicited food or drinks from strangers, no matter how friendly they seem. If someone offers to buy you a drink, insist on watching the bartender pour it. Trust me, your vacation stories should be about amazing adventures, not about trying to piece together missing hours.

The Lucky Ring That Brings Bad Luck

The Lucky Ring That Brings Bad Luck (image credits: unsplash)
The Lucky Ring That Brings Bad Luck (image credits: unsplash)

You’re admiring the Eiffel Tower when suddenly something shiny catches your eye on the ground – a beautiful gold ring! But before you can even bend down to look, a helpful passerby picks it up and asks if it’s yours. When you say no, they examine it closely, pointing out what looks like an authentic gold marking. “This is valuable!” they exclaim, then generously offer to sell it to you for a fraction of its “worth.” Also called the “gold ring scam”, Paris is known for this one too. In fact, it is probably the most famous of the Paris tourist scams. Someone comes up to you and tells you they just found a ring, and shows it to you. Version 1: They give you the ring. Then they say they are poor and demand money from you, reminding you that they just gave you a valuable ring. Version 2: In this version, they offer to sell you the ring for a great price. They will show some marking on the ring that “proves” it is valuable gold. The ring, of course, is worth about as much as the gum stuck to your shoe, but the performance is Oscar-worthy. These scammers have perfected the art of creating urgency and making you feel like you’ve stumbled upon the deal of a lifetime. The “gold” markings are fake, the story is rehearsed, and you’ll end up paying real money for worthless jewelry. The best way to avoid this scam is to not buy the ring. If it sounds too good to be true, it definitely is.

The Photo That Costs More Than Your Flight

The Photo That Costs More Than Your Flight (image credits: unsplash)
The Photo That Costs More Than Your Flight (image credits: unsplash)

Everyone wants that perfect vacation photo, and when a friendly local offers to take your picture in front of that famous landmark, it seems like the universe is looking out for you. After all, no more awkward selfie angles or leaving someone out of the group shot! But sometimes that helpful stranger has other plans for your camera or phone. This scam is another case of a helpful stranger who will help separate you from your money or camera. In this scam, someone offers to help take your photo with your camera or phone, or to help you navigate a local ATM machine. As soon as you give them your phone, camera or bank card, they run off with it, quickly disappearing into the crowd. In other variations, they’ll hand your device back but then demand payment for their “professional photography services.” In cities like New York and Rome, costumed individuals near attractions may charge unsuspecting tourists for photos. Agree on a price beforehand or avoid taking pictures with them. The worst part? You not only lose your expensive gadget but also all those precious vacation memories stored on it. If you see someone taking a picture of a fellow tourist, don’t assume they are friendly. Never give your phone or camera to a stranger – you may hate selfie sticks, but they are better than losing your camera. Never ever give your bank card to a stranger!

The Free Food Sample That Empties Your Wallet

The Free Food Sample That Empties Your Wallet (image credits: unsplash)
The Free Food Sample That Empties Your Wallet (image credits: unsplash)

Markets and food stalls are one of the best parts of traveling – the smells, the colors, the chance to taste authentic local flavors you can’t get back home. So when a vendor waves you over with a big smile and offers you a “free taste” of their specialty, it feels like genuine hospitality. But that tiny spoonful of deliciousness can quickly turn into a financial nightmare. In markets or restaurants, clarify the price before accepting anything—even a small sample. If someone pressures you into accepting a “gift,” politely but firmly decline and walk away. What starts as a generous gesture can quickly escalate into aggressive demands for payment, with vendors claiming that once you’ve tasted it, you’ve bought it. Sometimes they’ll pile more food onto your plate without asking, then present you with a bill that would make your eyes water. I’ve seen travelers fork over 50 euros for what they thought was a free piece of cheese because they were too intimidated to argue in a foreign language. The key is remembering that legitimate food vendors want to build relationships with customers, not trap them into paying for something they never agreed to buy.

The Charity Petition That Picks Your Pocket

The Charity Petition That Picks Your Pocket (image credits: unsplash)
The Charity Petition That Picks Your Pocket (image credits: unsplash)

Your heart is in the right place when you see what appears to be a student or activist with a clipboard, passionate about helping deaf children or saving endangered animals. They approach with such earnestness, asking if you’ll just sign their petition to support their cause. You’re at a popular tourist site and a woman or kid (often pretending to be deaf or a student) will try to get you to sign a petition. You don’t know what they are saying, and to end the awkwardness, you sign the petition, hoping they will go away. But the petitioner then demands a cash donation. At best, anyone who falls for this scam is out some money; at worst, they’re pickpocketed while fighting with the petitioner. While you’re focused on the clipboard and trying to read their cause, their accomplices are busy relieving you of your wallet, phone, or passport. The petition itself is completely fake – there’s no charity, no endangered animals, and definitely no deaf children benefiting from your signature. To avoid this scam, just ignore people coming up to you to sign a petition, especially when they are in groups and try to surround you. Real charitable organizations don’t corner tourists on the street with aggressive clipboard tactics. If you genuinely want to help a cause, research reputable organizations online and donate directly through their official channels.

The Blessing That Becomes a Curse

The Blessing That Becomes a Curse (image credits: flickr)
The Blessing That Becomes a Curse (image credits: flickr)

Spiritual sites and religious landmarks hold special meaning for many travelers, making them prime hunting grounds for scammers who prey on people’s respect for local customs and beliefs. Fake monks or nuns approach tourists, give them a “blessing,” then demand a donation. People with clipboards ask you to sign a charity petition, then demand a “donation.” Real monks never beg for money—just smile and walk away. Picture yourself at a beautiful temple, trying to soak in the peaceful atmosphere, when someone in religious robes approaches offering you a “special blessing” or a sacred bracelet for good luck. At temples and religious sites, a seemingly kind monk or spiritual figure offers you a blessing, bracelet, or token for good luck. After the ritual, they demand payment—sometimes aggressively. If you refuse, they may guilt-trip you into donating. The emotional manipulation is particularly cruel because they’re exploiting your respect for their culture and your desire to be culturally sensitive. Real religious figures don’t hustle tourists for cash, and authentic blessings aren’t transactions with price tags. If you’re approached for a blessing, politely decline. Donate only at official donation boxes inside temples. Your spiritual experience shouldn’t come with a sales pitch attached.

Ever notice how these scams all have one thing in common? They prey on the very qualities that make us good travelers – our openness to new experiences, our respect for local customs, and our basic human kindness. The scammers count on us being polite, curious, and maybe just a little bit naive when we’re in vacation mode. But here’s the thing: being cautious doesn’t make you a bad person or a paranoid tourist. It makes you a smart traveler who’ll actually make it home with both their wallet and their dignity intact. What surprised you most about these seemingly innocent offers?

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